InnerSelf Daily Inspiration

August 12, 2026

Emotions vs Feelings: Why It Matters

Emotions vs Feelings: Why It Matters

By Jude Bijou

Feelings are created when we add an interpretation to the emotional physiology we are experiencing in our bodies.

— Jude Bijou

Although people tend to use the words "feelings" and "emotions" interchangeably, there is a big difference between the two. Emotions are physical. Feelings are mental. Feelings are created when we add an interpretation to the emotional physiology we are experiencing in our bodies.

Feelings can be slippery because often we are not talking about ourselves but are really telling other people about themselves. Expressing these kinds of feelings are not going to illicit an open or positive response. They are not sharing about you. Saying, "I feel like you…" or "I feel as if you…" might seem like you are talking about yourself but are actually veiled "yous" that are telling someone about themselves. Rather than "I feel as if you don't like me," be specific and say, "I felt hurt when you didn't call when you said you would."

Be careful about using words that imply that something has been done to you. Such words as manipulated, neglected, judged, or abandoned are basically disguised forms of "you"s. When you say, "I feel ignored," you are really proclaiming, "You are ignoring me," or "I feel ignored by you," which immediately puts the other person on the defensive. Pushing against the defense works in a football game, but not so much in communication.

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Recap

This week’s issue focuses on navigating uncertainty through awareness, emotional insight, and conscious decision-making. With the addition of expanded astrology tools, readers gain both practical and reflective guidance for personal growth and life transitions.

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