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Why Nice Guys Do Finish First With Girls

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Written by: Joseph Ciarrochi, Australian Catholic University

Why Nice Guys Do Finish First With GirlsMaking friends is tough for teenagers. Making friends with the opposite sex can be even tougher. Our research, published in the Journal of Personality, suggests empathy may be the key to developing friendships, and may be especially important for young men establishing supportive friendships with young women.

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Happy Couples Downgrade Other People’s Hotness

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Written by: Ken Branson, Rutgers University

Happy Couples Downgrade Other People’s HotnessMany researchers have asked why people cheat on their partners. A new study asked how they stay together.

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Why Good Sex Ed Doesn't Lead To Teen Pregnancy

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Written by: Suzanne Dyson, La Trobe University

Sex ed should be inclusive, empowering, and facilitate ethical sexual relationships. lauren rushing/Flickr, CC BY-NC-NDComprehensive, inclusive sexuality and relationships education (“sex ed”) teaches children and adolescents in age-appropriate ways that sexuality is a normal, healthy part of life.

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Why Are Fewer People Getting Married?

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Written by: Jay L. Zagorsky, The Ohio State University

Why Are Fewer People Getting Married?June kicks off the U.S. wedding season. Whether you love nuptials or hate them, an astounding trend is occurring: fewer couples are tying the knot.

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When New Moms Are Stressed, Sex Life Takes A Hit

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Written by: Victoria Indivero-Penn State

When New Moms Are Stressed, Sex Life Takes A HitAfter having their first baby, new parents report being only somewhat satisfied with their sex lives. The stress levels of moms—but not dads—may be a reason why.

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How Do We Choose A Partner?

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Written by: Brendan Zietsch, The University of Queensland

What’s inside also counts. kira cronin/Flickr, CC BY-NC-NDWe know a lot about why people choose different brands of dishwashing detergent, because companies spend billions of dollars investigating who buys what. But when it comes to the processes behind perhaps our most significant life choice – choosing a romantic partner – science knows surprisingly little.

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Most Turn Their Nose Up When Love Is Sold To Them

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Written by: Zoe Strimpel, University of Sussex

Most Turn Their Nose Up When Love Is Sold To ThemMatchmaking and dating services used to advertise in small rectangles on tube carriages, next to the vitamin drinks and food delivery services, and in smaller rectangles still on the classified pages of newspapers and magazines.

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What Does Science Says About Love

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Written by: Gayle Brewer, University of Central Lancashire

What Does Science Says About LoveWe’ve all felt it at some time in our lives. Poets write about it, singers sing about it – and a whole industry has grown up around finding it, expressing it and maintaining it. But what is love? Where does it reside? What triggers it? And what’s really going on in our minds and bodies when we fall “head over heels”?

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Do Women Really Go For Bad Boys?

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Written by: Viren Swami, Anglia Ruskin University

Do Women Really Go For Bad Boys? “Nice guys finish last” is one of the most widely believed maxims of dating. Fleshed out, the idea goes something like this: heterosexual women might say they want nice characteristics in a partner, but in reality what they want is the challenge that comes with dating a “bad boy”.

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Do Abstinence Pledges Prevent Teen Pregnancy And Sexually Transmitted Diseases?

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Written by: Denise-Marie Ordway, Journalist Resource

Do Abstinence Pledges Prevent Teen Pregnancy And Sexually Transmitted Diseases?In the United States, the teen pregnancy rate is higher than in any other western industrialized country, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). At the same time, a growing number of American teens and young adults have been diagnosed with sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).

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Do Deep Voices Make Guys More Scary Than Sexy?

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Written by: A'ndrea Elyse Messer, Penn State

Do Deep Voices Make Guys More Scary Than Sexy?"Masculine traits in humans are not the same as, say, in peacocks where the beautiful tail attracts a mate," says David Puts. "For example, beards make men more dominant looking, scarier, and seemingly more dangerous, but most women prefer clean-shaven men."

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The Relationship Myth of Living Happily Ever After

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Written by: Linda & Charlie Bloom

The Relationship Myth of Living Happily Ever AfterTrue or false: *Couples with great relationships don’t fight. * Most people expect too much from marriage. * All the good men/women are already taken. * Love can heal all wounds. * If my partner were more like me, we’d have a better relationship.

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7 Deal Breakers When Looking For Love

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Written by: Michelle Neeley, University of Florida

7 Deal Breakers When Looking For Love"A lot of times, just by avoiding negative traits, people will probably be fairly well off—maybe even more well off—than if they were trying to optimize the best potential partner," says Gregory Webster.

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How Long Does Sex Normally Last?

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Written by: Brendan Zietsch, Research Fellow, The University of Queensland

How Long Does Sex Normally Last?The difficult thing is how to measure it, because people will probably over-estimate. If you’re a non-scientist, you might have once asked yourself, propped against the bedhead after disappointingly quick intercourse, how long does sex “normally” last?

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To Really Trust a Woman...

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Written by: Barry Vissell

To Really Trust a Woman...Becoming vulnerable with a woman teaches you all about trust. I often hear, “I’ll be more vulnerable with her when I trust her more.” This attitude doesn’t work. Your vulnerability opens the door to trust, and trust opens the door to love.

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There Are No Rules Of Attraction When It Comes To Meeting Your Match

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Written by: Viren Swami, Professor of Social Psychology, Anglia Ruskin University

There Are No Rules Of Attraction When It Comes To Meeting Your MatchSome time ago, I found myself single again (shock, horror!) and decided to get back into the world of dating. One thing that struck me very early on in my forays was that everyone had an opinion about “what worked” in terms of dating.

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Researchers Close In On The Mystery Of Why Sex Evolved

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Written by: Laurence D. Hurst, Professor of Evolutionary Genetics at The Milner Centre for Evolution, University of Bath

Researchers Close In On The Mystery Of Why Sex EvolvedThe reason why, in terms of evolution, organisms have sex may seem rather obvious – they do it to reproduce. Clearly, natural selection must favour individuals who can reproduce over those who can’t. But this is missing the point. For many species there is an alternative: asexual reproduction.

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Why Boys Need To Have Conversations About Emotional Intimacy

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Written by: Amy Schalet, Associate Professor of Sociology, University of Massachusetts Amherst

What parents don’t know about teenage boys. Davidlohr Bueso, CC BYAmerican classrooms do not talk frankly about teenage love or emotional intimacy. Last month, Tom Porton, an award-winning, veteran Bronx high school teacher, handed in his resignation after colliding with the school’s principal.

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Why We Are Attracted To People Who Look Like Our Parents

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Written by: Tamsin Saxton, Senior Lecturer in Psychology, Northumbria University, Newcastle

Why We Are Attracted To People Who Look Like Our ParentsHave you ever thought there was an uncanny family resemblance between your friend and her partner? Or wondered for a fleeting moment whether the pair walking down the road were husband and wife, or brother and sister? You might not be imagining things. Animals of many species “learn” what a suitable

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Is Cheating More Society's Problem Than An Affair Of The Heart

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Written by: Tamas Szekely, Professor of Biodiversity, University of Bath

Is Cheating Is More Society's Problem Than An Affair Of The HeartWhen it comes to love, cheating and divorce, matters are never just of the heart. In a bid to understand the love lives of humans, scientists have turned to the romantic relations of birds since the family life of many birds is reminiscent of those exhibited by humans.

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Testosterone Gel Improves Sex Drive In Older Men

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Written by: Allison Hydzik, University of Pittsburgh

Testosterone Gel Improves Sex Drive In Older MenA new study offers the first clear evidence that testosterone treatment for men 65 years and older can improve mood and sex drive.

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